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		<title>A Ban On Russian Adoptions?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jan 2013 18:10:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/8A23C8D3-8954-4123-B650-2DCC3FCDFAB3_w640_r1_s_cx0_cy5_cw0.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1689" title="8A23C8D3-8954-4123-B650-2DCC3FCDFAB3_w640_r1_s_cx0_cy5_cw0" src="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/8A23C8D3-8954-4123-B650-2DCC3FCDFAB3_w640_r1_s_cx0_cy5_cw0-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a>The Russian president, Vladamir Putin, recently signed a controversial law banning Americans from adopting Russian children.  <a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/blog/a-ban-on-russian-adoptions/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/8A23C8D3-8954-4123-B650-2DCC3FCDFAB3_w640_r1_s_cx0_cy5_cw0.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1689" title="8A23C8D3-8954-4123-B650-2DCC3FCDFAB3_w640_r1_s_cx0_cy5_cw0" src="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/8A23C8D3-8954-4123-B650-2DCC3FCDFAB3_w640_r1_s_cx0_cy5_cw0-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a>The Russian president, Vladamir Putin, recently signed a controversial law banning Americans from adopting Russian children. The adoption of Russian children has been a prominent part of the international adoption scene in the United States. In fact, some estimates indicate that there have been over 60,000 adoptions of Russian children by Americans since 1992. So why the ban?</p>
<p>Many believe that Putin signed the law banning Americans from adopting Russian children in what was widely viewed as a retaliatory measure against U.S. passage of the Magnitsky Act. The Magnitsky Act imposes a visa ban and financial sanctions on Russian officials accused of human rights violations. It is named after Sergei Magnitsky, a Russian anti-corruption lawyer who died in jail in 2009, after alleging officials were involved in a multi-million-dollar tax scam.</p>
<p>But what happens now? Many prospective adoptive parents who were in the middle of the process of adopting a Russian child have been left in despair because the original signature of the law prevents these adoptions from completion. However, recent talks indicate that Putin <em>may</em> back off on his U.S. adoption ban. We have our fingers crossed! For more information about the ban on Russian adoptions please click <a title="Russian Adoption Ban" href="http://www.nytimes.com/2012/12/29/world/europe/russian-adoption-ban-brings-uncertainty-and-outrage.html">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>Adopting a Sibling Group?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2012 18:21:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/adopting-a-sibling-group.jpeg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1677" title="adopting a sibling group" src="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/adopting-a-sibling-group-225x300.jpeg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a>Russian-Canadian film maker Julia Ivanovna recently completed a documentary about a Canadian couple, Martin and Cathy Ward, who adopted a group of five Ukranian siblings. The film follows a family who hosted a four year old girl for a summer, decided to adopt her, and in learning that she had four siblings that were still in the orphanage, decide to adopt them as well.
 <a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/blog/adopting-a-sibling-group/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/adopting-a-sibling-group.jpeg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1677" title="adopting a sibling group" src="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/adopting-a-sibling-group-225x300.jpeg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a>Russian-Canadian film maker Julia Ivanovna recently completed a documentary about a Canadian couple, Martin and Cathy Ward, who adopted a group of five Ukranian siblings. The film follows a family who hosted a four year old girl for a summer, decided to adopt her, and in learning that she had four siblings that were still in the orphanage, decide to adopt them as well.</p>
<p>The film examines this family&#8217;s good intentions, the struggles they faced after the adoption and the effect that this drastic change had on the children.</p>
<p>The documentary, called <a title="Trials and Tribulations of adopting a Sibling Group" href="http://www.variety.com/review/VE1117948563/" target="_blank">&#8220;High Five: A Suburban Adoption Saga&#8221;</a> screened last week at the Vancouver Fim Festival and hopefully will appear in the United States soon.</p>
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		<title>Facts: Domestic Newborn Adoption</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2012 17:36:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/Lovely_illustration_of_Happy_family_on_sofa_wallcoo.com_1.jpeg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1672" title="Lovely_illustration_of_Happy_family_on_sofa_wallcoo.com" src="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/Lovely_illustration_of_Happy_family_on_sofa_wallcoo.com_1-300x225.jpeg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>Adoptive Families magazine is a great resource for families thinking about expanding through adoption. In a recent survey from 2011, the magazine contributors discovered that the annual number of infants adopted domestically (excluding foster and relative adoption) is estimated to be around 18,000 <a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/blog/facts-domestic-newborn-adoption/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/Lovely_illustration_of_Happy_family_on_sofa_wallcoo.com_1.jpeg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1672" title="Lovely_illustration_of_Happy_family_on_sofa_wallcoo.com" src="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/Lovely_illustration_of_Happy_family_on_sofa_wallcoo.com_1-300x225.jpeg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>Adoptive Families magazine is a great resource for families thinking about expanding through adoption. In a recent survey from 2011, the magazine contributors discovered that the annual number of infants adopted domestically (excluding foster and relative adoption) is estimated to be around 18,000 &#8212; far greater than the annual number of international adoptions. Moreover, the process of adopting a newborn in the United States can go more swiftly than you may imagine. In fact, the majority of respondents were matched with a birthmother in less than three months, and 40% were matched less than one month before their child was born. To read some more interesting facts about domestic newborn adoption, click <a href="http://www.theadoptionguide.com/options/domestic-adoption">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>Native American Adoptions &amp; A Reminder of ICWA&#8217;s Importance</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2012 17:15:24 +0000</pubDate>
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ICWA is sometimes a dreaded term  in the adoption profession. The acronym for Indian Child Welfare Act is a subject of frequent discussion in adoption and foster care circles.  In balancing the weight of the rights that ICWA protects with the additional paperwork it creates, the scale is emphatically tipped towards the former.
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<p>ICWA is sometimes a dreaded term  in the adoption profession. The acronym for Indian Child Welfare Act is a subject of frequent discussion in adoption and foster care circles.  In balancing the weight of the rights that ICWA protects with the additional paperwork it creates, the scale is emphatically tipped towards the former.</p>
<p>Take, for example, <a title="Native American Adoption Story" href="http://www.tunbridgewellspeople.co.uk/Native-American-hopes-adoption-story-strength/story-17040537-detail/story.html" target="_blank">Jonathan Brooks</a>, a Native American adoptee- Brooks was one of many adoptees taken from a reservation in the 1950&#8242;s with little information about tracing his roots.  Later in life, curiosity led him to the reservation he was originally from. The experience of tracing his roots is now articulated in a book that was recently published, and Brooks hopes that his story (and life coaching business that stemmed from it) can help other Native American adoptees cope.</p>
<p>Fortunately, ICWA and other notice requirements have been enacted since the time of Brooks&#8217;s adoption. These requirements serve as an important safeguard and it behooves adoption professionals to abide by them.</p>
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		<title>The Importance of Second Parent Adoption for Same Sex Couples</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Oct 2012 21:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/california-second-parent-adoption.jpeg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1664" title="california second parent adoption" src="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/california-second-parent-adoption-200x300.jpeg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a>

People are always saying that a second parent adoption or domestic partner adoption is needed for same-sex parents to protect their and their child's rights- but why? <a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/blog/the-importance-of-second-parent-adoption-for-same-sex-couples/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>People are always saying that a second parent adoption or domestic partner adoption is needed for same-sex parents to protect their and their child&#8217;s rights- but why?</p>
<p>In California it is perfectly acceptable for a birth certificate to have the names of a same sex couple on it, but the general consensus remains that it is imperative for gay and lesbian parents to do a second-parent adoption or domestic partner adoption (if they are registered domestic partners) to protect their, and their child&#8217;s rights.</p>
<p>This is because some states refuse to recognize same-sex parents. If a family happens to be traveling in one of these states and an emergency arises, the non-birthparent (whether on the child&#8217;s birth certificate or not) can be denied fundamental parental rights such as making medical decisions or deciding other emergency issues.</p>
<p>Fortunately, the Full Faith and Credit clause of the Constitution requires states to obey and respect decrees from other State courts.  A birth certificate is not equivalent to a court decree, however, a second parent adoption order is. The adoption orders that both parents are the legal parents of the child at issue. Thus, a same sex couple in a state that does not recognize same-sex parents, but has completed a second parent adoption, can exercise the same rights and make the same decisions with respect to their child.</p>
<p>If you would like more information about second parent adoption or domestic partner adoption, call for a free consultation at (415) 200-3600.</p>
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		<title>Adopting a Premature Baby</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Oct 2012 18:53:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/3311717418_2580ed6746.jpeg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1658" title="3311717418_2580ed6746" src="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/3311717418_2580ed6746-198x300.jpeg" alt="" width="198" height="300" /></a>In the United States, 8 to 10 percent of infants are born prematurely, and the figure is likely higher in adoptees, due to the prevalence of factors that lead to prematurity, such as lack of prenatal care and poor nutrition. <a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/blog/adopting-a-premature-baby/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/3311717418_2580ed6746.jpeg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1658" title="3311717418_2580ed6746" src="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/3311717418_2580ed6746-198x300.jpeg" alt="" width="198" height="300" /></a>In the United States, 8 to 10 percent of infants are born prematurely, and the figure is likely higher in adoptees, due to the prevalence of factors that lead to prematurity, such as lack of prenatal care and poor nutrition. Adoptive parents whose child was born prematurely, or at a low birth weight (LBW), are justifiably concerned about the medical conditions the child may face immediately after delivery, and medical and/or developmental problems in the future. While they appear tiny and fragile, preemies are surprisingly resilient. To read more, click <a href="http://www.adoptivefamilies.com/articles.php?aid=315">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>Adoption Subsidies</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Sep 2012 16:17:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.aarksadoption.com/?p=1648</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/bag_of_money.png"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1649" title="bag_of_money" src="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/bag_of_money-234x300.png" alt="" width="234" height="300" /></a>Another fantastic article written by the great Adam Pertman appeared in the Huffington Post recently.  <a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/blog/adoption-subsidies/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/bag_of_money.png"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1649" title="bag_of_money" src="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/bag_of_money-234x300.png" alt="" width="234" height="300" /></a>Another fantastic article written by the great Adam Pertman appeared in the Huffington Post recently. This piece focuses on adoption and the importance of subsidies to ensure that children waiting for their &#8220;forever families&#8221; are not waiting longer than they should because prospective adoptive parents simply cannot afford to adopt. To read the entire article, click <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/adam-pertman/adoption-subsidies_b_1905753.html">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>&#8220;Somewhere Between&#8221; Chronicles Teens&#8217; Experience With Adoption</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2012 16:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/Documentary-Chronicles-Adoption-from-China.jpeg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-1646" title="Documentary Chronicles Adoption from China" src="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/Documentary-Chronicles-Adoption-from-China-200x300.jpeg" alt="" width="120" height="180" /></a>A documentary chronicling the lives of four teenaged girls adopted from China is making waves within the adoption community and beyond. "Somewhere Between" tells the stories of these girls while examining their sense of self-identity, feelings of belonging in their community and perspectives on their familial structure. A full trailer can be seen <a title="Trailer for Somewhere Between- Documentary about Adoption from China" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-tym49uGmm0" target="_blank">here</a>. <a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/blog/somewhere-between-chronicles-teens-experience-with-adoption/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/Documentary-Chronicles-Adoption-from-China.jpeg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-1646" title="Documentary Chronicles Adoption from China" src="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/Documentary-Chronicles-Adoption-from-China-200x300.jpeg" alt="" width="120" height="180" /></a>A documentary chronicling the lives of four teenaged girls adopted from China is making waves within the adoption community and beyond. &#8220;Somewhere Between&#8221; tells the stories of these girls while examining their sense of self-identity, feelings of belonging in their community and perspectives on their familial structure. A full trailer can be seen <a title="Trailer for Somewhere Between- Documentary about Adoption from China" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-tym49uGmm0" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>Adoption &amp; Destiny</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Aug 2012 18:33:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/motherlode-adopt-destiny-illus-articleInline1.jpeg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1641" title="motherlode-adopt-destiny-illus-articleInline" src="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/motherlode-adopt-destiny-illus-articleInline1.jpeg" alt="" width="190" height="190" /></a>A recent blog written in the New York Times delves into the issue of adoption and destiny. <a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/blog/adoption-destiny/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/motherlode-adopt-destiny-illus-articleInline1.jpeg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1641" title="motherlode-adopt-destiny-illus-articleInline" src="http://www.aarksadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/motherlode-adopt-destiny-illus-articleInline1.jpeg" alt="" width="190" height="190" /></a>A recent blog written in the New York Times delves into the issue of adoption and destiny. The author, who performed research on &#8220;magical thinking&#8221; interviewed many couples who were unable to have their own biological children because of  infertility. Of the 19 couples interviewed, all of them felt that their experience with infertility was the worst thing that every happened to them, yet these couples set aside crippling grievances as soon as they came in contact with someone who needed their love &#8212; their adoptive children. The research also discovered that many adoptive parents strongly believe that &#8220;destiny&#8221; had brought their child to them. To read more, click <a href="http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/08/15/adoption-destiny-and-magical-thinking/">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>Another Famous Adoptee: Skrillex Talks About his Experience</title>
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Whether you love his music or you hate it, there is no denying that Skrillex is one of the world's most successful DJ's- remixing top charting artists like Lady Gaga and Bruno Mars at music festivals like Coachella and San Francisco's Outside Lands. It turns out that his musical career began to take off when he discovered he was adopted: <a href="http://www.aarksadoption.com/blog/another-famous-adoptee-skryllex-talks-about-his-experience/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Whether you love his music or you hate it, there is no denying that Skrillex is one of the world&#8217;s most successful DJ&#8217;s- remixing top charting artists like Lady Gaga and Bruno Mars at music festivals like Coachella and San Francisco&#8217;s Outside Lands. It turns out that his musical career began to take off when he discovered he was adopted:</p>
<p>&#8220;I discovered I was adopted when I was 16. But not only that, I found out that everyone – my parents&#8217; friends, my own friends, my friends&#8217; parents, everyone – had known except me. I&#8217;ve made up with my parents now, but I wasn&#8217;t too happy at the time.&#8221;</p>
<p>Many children who find out that they are adopted later in life feel resentment towards their family and betrayal as a result of not being &#8220;in&#8221; on a secret.  Open adoption circumvents this issue by teaching children about their birth story from a very young age. Knowing one&#8217;s birth story has proven to improve adoptees&#8217; self-image and strengthen their own identity.  We are glad to see that Skryllex has overcome these challenges and wish him the best as he pursues his career!</p>
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